New Years resolutions.

If you have ever made a resolution, I would guess you have broken a resolution. The worst part about making/breaking one is that you feel like you failed and why not just give up because you already broke it. This is why I think making a New years resolution is not the way to change something you really want to do. All the good things I have changed about my self have been done by just deciding what I have to do to make them happen and then doing it. Like when I quit smoking. I had to just throw them out and not buy any more ever. Now I did that process like five times and was told by people I was just throwing money away when I would start again and throw them out when I decided I was going to try again. I have not smoked in a very long time and still crave them all the time but as with any addiction you can hardly ever have just one more and not want a whole lot more. So, this worked for me. It doesn't mean it will work for you. I can tell you that giving up will never work for you. If you want a change in your life. No matter how many times you fail you must never give up and this is the key. The secret if you will, that every person who has ever made any big change has in common. So this year I have decided to have a non resolution to get healthy and be happy. And see as many people in my life as I can and make tons of memories. I am not going to give up. Please don't give up on your dreams either. No matter what.