Don't tell me something and then tell me to keep it SECRET.

This always gets to me the most. Someone will talk about someone behind their back and then tell you not to tell them. This in it's self is not a lie but when the person they were talking about asks you if they were talking about them that's when the lying starts. So, by telling you to keep it secret they are telling you not to be HONEST. I personally never say anything about a person I wouldn't be willing to say to their face. Now, I know you don't want to tell the birthday boy there is a suprise party. But, don't start talking crap about someone and if I know that person expect me not to tell them. Just saying.


I am the worst secret keeper ever. I use to tell people this all the time. If you don't want everyone to know about it please don't tell me. You know that little voice in your head that says "you shouldn't say that." I don't have that filter. If I'm thinking it. I'm saying it. I guess that's how I became the HONEST person I am. You can't lie if you say everything on your mind. I tell perfect strangers about getting a breast biopsy. I just say everything. Secrets are just another form of lying to me. If you don't tell someone they were adopted their whole life is it a secret or is it lying? Just saying. If you say what's on your mind. Be HONEST and don't keep secrets you will have a much happier life.